Female Orgasm

Bringing a woman to orgasm is not only a physical task, but a mental one too. Many men think that just simply banging away long enough will be sufficient to do the job. If you are able to seduce a woman's brain, it will be easy to bring her to orgasm.

There are a number of ways you can get her mentally stimulated;

Talking about sex is a great way to get your partner's mind working and in the correct mode for sex. You can tell her what you intend to do to her to drive her wild. Don't give away to much, as a little will be enough to get her imagination working, and this will keep your partner thinking all day.

Tell your woman about the sexual fantasies you have about her, and ask her to share any sexual fantasies she may have about you. You can further stir feelings by remembering one of the best times you and your partner had during sex. This will make her more roused as she thinks of the encounter.

During foreplay, do not rush. Instead, take your time to explore your woman's body. You should aim to spend at least 40 minutes on good quality foreplay. This will get her juices flowing all the more, and will bring her levels of arousal to new heights. Your Partner's senses will also become more sensitive to any stimulation that you may give her.

When you see the signals that she is ready to receive you, choose a position that will give your woman the most intense orgasm. Find out what she likes, and aim to satisfy her desire. There are many positions and techniques you can use that offer different results.

By: Susan Johnsson

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Keira

Unlike men, whose sex organs are available for self pleasure by stroking and stimulating any time of the day, women have to contrive to entice their clitoris out of hiding and available for pleasuring. One of the most common female self pleasuring tips is the use of sex toys and gadgets.

Luckily for us, female self pleasure toys can be found in our very own kitchen. Sure, jokes have been made about this, but it’s true. The usual suspects here are any penis-like vegetables and fruits, like carrots, cucumbers or zucchinis. Bananas are too soft to do the trick. Sometimes, un-penis-like fruits and vegetables can create another type of female self pleasure as a form of taste aphrodisiac: cherries, grapes, or sections of oranges. Feel free to use different female self pleasure techniques to enhance your arousal. Inserting any of the penis-like items inside your vulva, as you would a dildo will add to your self pleasure. As a female self pleasure technique, the use of fruits and vegetables has a lot going for it: It will not endanger you physically, in contrast to, for example, using a bottle, which might break inside you, or, a piece of wood, which might splinter--ouch! I am not sure that anyone has ever used an open bottle for this purpose, but it is worth cautioning all women against it: An open bottle will form a-suction inside you and it would be quite impossible to remove it without the embarrassment of explaining to a doctor why you are depositing strange objects inside your vagina.

After you’ve pleasured yourself with just about everything you can from your fridge, you might want to try a dildo. Dildos have been manufactured to be sold and used especially for female self pleasuring. They were not merely created to aid men in their sexual fantasies when they watch all those erotic movies. Erotic movies, however, are very informative when it comes to learning how to use dildos. Use a dildo to massage your clitoris and slide it in and out and around your vagina. Even better are the men, who possess the lingual skillfulness similar to a dildo but more importantly, they are selfless enough to aspire to that ability. Either way, these great female self pleasuring techniques will open up a whole new world of female self pleasuring ideas.

Copyright 2005 – E.J. Davis

By: E.J. Davis

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Jailyn

If you think that sex is the most amazing activity ever and could never bore from it, then you need to speak with middle aged and married ladies. A lot of them will tell you how boring their sex life is, and how they aren't satisfied in bed. If you fear you may be the man or husband in this situation, then read on for some tips on how to improve your love life with amazing sex tricks.

Sex Toys

The first thing you can do to spice up your lovemaking is to add an ally into the mix. No, I don't mean another person, I'm talking about toys! Sex toys are fun and can add an immense amount of variety to your sex life. Take your woman with you to the store and pick out a toy or 2 together. You can make it not only pleasurable, but fun as well. If your woman likes surprises, then surprise her with an evening in and work a toy into your session. If you don't want to leave your home to buy a toy, there are plenty of tasteful and reputable sites online where you can purchase discreetly. Stop just using your fingers and your penis to rock her world, she will not only appreciate your ingenuity, she will return the favor.

Location

A quick and easy way to add spice and excitement to your relationship is to try having sex in different places other than the bedroom. If your woman is spontaneous, then have sex in places all over the home. Try doggy style on the kitchen table, or take a shower together and please her both orally and vaginally. The staircase is also a fun and different place to try, just be careful to not injure yourselves. If you're women is an exhibitionist, then have sex in the car. Not only will sex in different locations get her libido going, it can add a little kick to the rest of your relationship.

Fantasy & Role Play

All men and women have sexual fantasies. Your woman may not freely admit her sexual fantasy, so ask her what it is! By showing her that you are interested in pleasing her, you are opening her up to try all sorts of new things together. Some women may be embarrassed to tell you what their fantasy is, so be tactful and assure her it is ok. Once she has given you a scenario, act it out to the best of your ability. Try role playing to let loose, if you and your partner are in 'character', it may be easier to push the limits of your sexual experience.

If you're not ready to take the plunge and make a drastic change to your sex life, you may feel your partner drift from you. If you feel as though you need to make a slow change, simply changing positions or your routine can be a great way to start. If you only have sex at night, try having it in the morning or afternoon, or even more than once a day. You may find that when you make slight changes in your routine, you are adding spice and variety to not only your sex life, but your relationship as well.

By: George Christodoulou

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Saul