Female Orgasm

Differences between men and women are most visible and observable during sex. Men like to be more visual while women need it all to reach an orgasm. That is mental, emotional and physical stimulation. The only way to secure your sex life is to be absolutely certain she loves having sex with you. When she enjoys what she is experiencing, you are sure when she thinks of a bed, she thinks of you. Here are 4 tips to give her great orgasms and make sure she enjoys her time with you...

#1 - Play up the ambience: Ambiance is important when you are to have tantalizing sex. Make sure she is most relaxed and comfortable. Make her enjoy herself and enjoy your sweet company. Make it known to her that you appreciate her. The more she feels that you are totally into her, the more she will respond to you. The more desirable and appreciated she is by you, the more she will love to be with you. Compliment her not only physically but make her see everything about herself in your eyes and mind. Once her mood is set, she will be very receptive to your attention.

#2 - Put the passions on a slow-burner: Never rush into sex. You see, part of the excitement in sex is in not knowing when she will be receiving whatever pleasure you have in store for her. By moving slowly and intimately to her erogenous areas, and by stimulating everything else along the way... you are setting her up for the most intense climaxes she will experience every time. So even if you know she likes being stimulated on her breasts, clitoris and vagina, tease first; pleasure later. Make it fun so that she will be in a great sexual mood and be ready for an orgasm once you get started.

#3 - Props are great! Your hands, tongue, mouth, feet, and everything else are your props. Use them wisely. Maximize the things you do with the help of great wine, ice, good food... you name it, you have it. There are plenty of impromptu "sex aids" around the house. Use your creativity and imagination and put them to good use! Arouse her interest and keep things fun and positive. You will keep her on the edge every time.

#4 - The sensual art of endurance: You have to be able to give her intense pleasure until she breaks out into orgasm. Learn up a few techniques of tantric sex or practice simple exercises that will strengthen your perineal muscles so that you can hold your own ejaculation. Let her anticipation slowly boil over with your attention and she will have the most explosive orgasm once her body cannot take any more of your stimulation. Last longer than her, and you will give her multiple orgasms without fail.

By: Evan L. Kinney

About the Author:

Marley

Oftentimes Christian couples will have questions regarding the specific rules of intimacy allowable within the Christian religion. If these questions go unanswered, they can cause great stress and uncertainty within the relationship. In turn this can cause strains in sexual intimacy, and cause sex to be limited or less frequent. Here are important rules to learn regarding Christian intimacy:

Positions allowable:

Many Christian couples will be surprised at the number and variety of positions allowable. First off, the main aspect to positioning is safety. If it is not safe and not intimately enjoyable to your partner, then it should not be allowed.

The one position or intimacy act most often discussed and debated is that of rear entry. Again Christians may be very surprised to find the amount of positive remarks regarding this position. It can be argued, and cited directly from the Bible, that this intimacy position is definitely allowable. On the other hand, there are individuals who have steadfast beliefs otherwise. It is up to the couple to make the decision, making sure to always put safety at the forefront of the discussion.

Sex Toys or Intimacy tools:

Another controversial issue within Christian sex intimacy, is in regards to sex toys or intimacy aids. Many will automatically assume that these tools are to be forbidden, but the truth is not as cut and dry. Sex toys or intimacy aids are indeed allowed within Christian intimacy, given that they offer a safe, enjoyable way to increase or assist in sexual pleasures. Oftentimes sex toys such as lotions or lubricants will often make intimacy much more safe and sound, than without the use of them.

Christian Sex Manuals for Rules and Practice Technique:

Some have believed that even reading or studying this subject more intensely is possibly a sin and likely isn't allowed. It certainly is not forbidden to seek out more knowledge by studying from a sex intimacy manual which is specifically written for Christian couples. This is actually one of the quickest, easiest, and most effective ways to get to the bottom of Christian intimacy practice and find out not only what is allowed, but different tips and techniques you can use to greatly increase your intimate sex life.

By: Chess McDoogle

About the Author:

Ahmad

The variety of sex toys is surprising. Sex toys vary from purely male or purely female sex toys to toys that can be used by both sexes. There are also some sex toys that can also be classified as sex aids or marital aids.

The Purpose Of Sex Toys

Some sex toys aid the man's erection, stimulate the female genitals to become more sensitive or provide a different feel to 'normal' sex. Other sex toys provide an 'environment' for variations in sex, for example so called orgy bed sheets. Sometimes they are used to help a person who has difficulty with unaided sex to achieve sexual satisfaction. However most sex toys provide a new way to directly stimulate the male or female genitals to achieve sexual satisfaction.

Using sex toys can provide new experiences and variation in the sexual experience. It can also provide a fantasy element for enhancing or revitalising a relationship.

The usual expectation is that a sex toy provides direct stimulation of the genitals in foreplay and/or during sexual intercourse or as a means to obtain orgasm through only the stimulation provided by the sex toy.

Types of Sex Toys

Vibrating Sex Toys

Probably the most well known sex toys are 'vibrators' which, as the name suggests, provide stimulation of the genitals using vibration. They are mainly used to stimulate the clitoris, but may also be used to stimulate any other part of the female body or that of a man's.

The simplest of these are pencil or wand shaped (though normally thicker than a pencil). They often have an internal battery (or two) which powers a small electric motor. Sometimes the battery pack and controller are external and connected to the vibrator by a wire. This motor is fitted with a small, out of balance, weight attached to the shaft. As this weight rotates it throws the motor and vibrator into a small circular movement which causes the vibration you feel.

With a vibrator that has a controller, as the power is increased the speed of the motor increases and with it both the rate and strength of vibration. Both the strength and rate of vibration effects how stimulating you find the sex toy. The best effect may not be as strong and as fast as possible. The optimum settings may well change as your degree of excitement builds. To get the best results it is worth buying a vibrator which is controllable.

Different vibrators will have different characteristics and you may well find you prefer one combination much more than another and your preference may even vary depending on which part of your body you are stimulating.

More recently electronic vibrator controllers have appeared which provide not only the static control of power/speed but also allow you to select patterns of power pulses and surges. These can be very effective.

There are also other vibrating sex toys such as butterfly stimulators and vibrating penis rings.

Other Powered Sex Toys

There are some sex toys that use other ways to provide mechanical stimulation. These usually depend on a motor that makes the sex toy continually change its shape which provides a sort of rotational movement or makes it move back and forth. The back and forth movements are sometimes powered by an air pump rather than a motor. The movements have been used to create, for example, mechanical licking tongues, vibrators that 'penetrate' the vagina and mouth simulators to give a man a 'blow job'.

On a bigger scale and much more expensive, there are 'sex machines' that incorporate thrusting and vibrating dildos.

Combination Sex Toys

So far we have covered vibrating, moving and thrusting sex toys. As you may have guessed these are all offered in a bewildering array of combinations.

A common combination in many 'Rabbit Style' vibrators is clitoral stimulation using vibrations and vaginal stimulation using movement and sometimes a thrusting motion as well.

Many sex toys add varying textures to their surfaces; a dildo or vibrator may have ridges or soft spikes or a rippled shape.

Sensation Change Sex Toys

Some sex toys rather than provide vibrating or moving stimulation, change the feel of sex.

For instance there are a variety of sleeves to put over the penis to provide different sensations for both partners while engaged in penetrative sex.

There are rings that squeeze the base of the penis and/or tighten the scrotum that assist the man's erection and also changes his sensations. There are penis extenders and thickeners which may give a man's partner greater sensations during penetration.

There are a wide variety of lubricants that can significantly change the feel of sex.

There are PVC and Polyurethane bed sheets that are water and oil proof that can be used for slippery or messy sex.

Why Use A Sex Toy?

A good question is: why do people use a sex toy? Surely fingers, tongues, penises, clitorises and vaginas etc all provide great sexual stimulation and enjoyment.

Well, apart from therapeutic uses (eg erection assistance), sex toys can drive the imagination (being taken by a machine), provide variety (new ways to do old things), vary the stimulating effects in otherwise normal sex (penis sleeves) and some can provide experiences not possible with 'normal body parts' (particularly vibrating sex toys and electro-stimulation).

Where To Start

If you have not tried a sex toy before and don't yet have an idea of what you might like, try one of the simpler vibrators first. Most probably you will enjoy the experience and then start to wonder what other delights can be found with more sophisticated vibrators and other sex toys ...

If you then find you do enjoy sex toys try out a few others and find what suits you. Above all, have fun trying them out!

By: Abbie Acworth

About the Author:

Mckenna

There are many Christian sex aids which you can use to greatly improve your intimacy. Many Christian couples are very hesitant to get into using outside tools or toys to improve their sex life. But there are some very simple Christian sex aids you can use safely, easily and effectively.

1. Lotions, Lubes, and Erotic Oils.

These are the simplest forms of intimacy aids you can use. They are easily available and very effective. They are also simple to use and have a wide variety of applications. This might be the subtle intimacy aid you need to greatly improve sex. You can start out with simple lotions or lubrication, and then graduate into more of the hot erotic oils for even more pleasure.

2. Feather Pleasure Toys.

Here's another easy form of intimacy toy which can have great pleasurable effects. Feather pleasure toys take the similar form of a feather duster, but are designed better for more pleasure. These can be used all over the body and can provide just the right subtle amount of added pleasure necessary to really spice up your intimacy.

3. Christian Intimacy Manual.

This is a great aid to use in your sex life as it provides a ton of fun and exciting ways to spice up sex, and doing so in a Christian specific manner. That is, harmful tips and techniques which do not coincide with Christian practice are excluded from Christian manuals. Only Christian safe techniques are provided. They include different positions, touching tips and many other pleasurable sex techniques guaranteed to improve intimacy.

By: Chess McDoogle

About the Author:

Alfonso

There are some important areas in a Christian relationship which should be focused on in order to keep things fresh and exciting. Sex should definitely be an area that Christian couples should continually focus on and work towards keeping things exciting and new. Here are some great Christian sex ideas which you can use to spice up intimacy within your relationship:

1. Sex toys or intimacy aids!

A great way to automatically change things up or add another level of intimacy to your relationship, is by bringing in a Christian sex toy or intimacy aid. This does not have to be anything elaborate or complicated. For instance erotic massage oils can be a simple way to add variety to your intimacy.

2. Positions for sex!

An even easier way to increase variety in your sex life, is simply by learning and engaging in new intimate positions. This can be done on the spot, though you should research the Christian safe positions, and then learn the new positions so you can implement them safely and enjoyably.

3. A Sex Manual!

Probably the best way to add variety and increase your level of intimacy within your relationship, is by getting a Christian sex manual which will show dozens of different techniques, tips and tricks to apply specifically to sex within a Christian relationship. This can make a huge difference in increasing your frequency and enjoyment of sex.

This is a great tool as it will serve as a constant source for applying variety towards your intimacy. It will also outline all the accepted positions and practices within Christian intimate practice.

By: Chess McDoogle

About the Author:

Sterling