Female Orgasm

Ah, the elusive female orgasm. Sometimes you find it and sometime you don't. If only you knew EXACTLY how to achieve satisfaction EVERY time.

This little lesson should do the trick for you. Here I'll be telling you the best positions for female orgasm so you and your partner can start benefitting immediately.

It's a fact that only 30% of women actually climax through vaginal intercourse. The other 70% have orgasms through clitoral stimulation. To work around this limitation, there are specific sexual positions to ensure female orgasm no matter which side of the statistic your partner resides on.

Penetration During Oral Sex While you are going down on her, be as gentle as possible. Direct clitoral stimulation is too sensative for most woment to handle right away. Instead, tease your partner by slowly caressing your tongue around her vaginal lips. Work from the outside in in repetitive, slow strokes of the tongue.

Once you're a couple of minutes or so into this, she'll be begging for you to start on her clitoris. Don't spoil the momentum by attacking this sensative bud of skin. Be cautious and gentle as you begin to lick her clitoris using long, slow strokes.

A woman's clitoris has far more nerve endings than the head of a man's penis. It's super sensative. Go slow and her quivers will let you know when it's time to speed up your stroke.

As your pace increased, wet your fingers in preparation for penetration. Ensure she is very lubricated at this point.

You'll want to start by using one finger to gently penetrate her while you continue caressing with your tongue. It's a very unique feeling for women as they're unable to duplicate this kind of sensation through masturbation. By stimulating her clitoris AND gently penetrating with your fingers, she'll be overwhelmed by pleasure in no time.

Cowgirl & Reverse-Cowgirl Whether, a woman is riding her lover cowgirl or reverse-cowgirl, being on top allows her to choose the depth of penetration as well as the speed of thrusting. She's in control. If something feels good, she'll let you know. For guys, you'll be able to relax a bit. You won't need to support yourself with your arms as you normally would during missionary position. With both your hands free you can stimulate her clitoris or sit back as she massages herself into an earth-shattering orgasm. It's a great position to start with. She'll be able to ease herself into more vigorous thrusting while at the same time achieve orgasm. This should take the pressure off you early in the game.

For women who are a bit more shy, reverse-cowgirl may be a better alternative. They can masturbate freely while facing away from their partner. This might alleviate any self-consciousness and allow them to relax a bit and focus on the task at hand.

The Leapfrog This is a variation of the cowgirl position. However, rather than settling down on her knees, the woman will rest on her feet and squat down on the man's penis. She can rest her hands on his legs, ribs or chest for support.

The major difference between normal cowgirl position is the variation of angle. Ladies, you'll love this one because you can lean forward and create just the right depth and thrust to stimulate your G-Spot.

Lean back and place your hands on his legs for support. The new angle will spread your vaginal lips allowing you to feel the thrusting vibrations move all the way up to your clitoris. It's a titalating tease the will entice you to thrust harder and faster until inevitable climax.

If you're hands busy supporting yourself, your partner can step up and help rub you just the right way to finish the job. Learning how to touch a woman is something that all men should take the time to learn. It couldn't be any easier with the 500 Lovemaking Tips offered through this site.

The Sidewinder This one works best if she's got one leg pushing against a wall for thrusting support. It does take a little bit of flexibility so take your time figuring out where your legs go the first time around. Here's how you do it...

Both lovers should face eachother on their side. The woman's bottom leg should be wrapped around the man's waist. Her other leg (the top one) will be propped up by his arm as he wraps his hand around her thigh.

The man will gently begin pulling her by her top thigh onto his penis, starting shallow at first. His other arm (the one on the bottom) is free to caress her face, hair or just hold on to the sheets for grounding.

All this time, the woman has a free hand to reach down inside and begin fondling her clitorus for an explosive orgasm. It's a great way to not only mix up your normal routine but also allow BOTH partners equal pleasure at the same time. Try it out.

The Doggystyle Variation This position varies slightly from normal doggystyle. It allows the woman to pinpoint her G-Spot directly onto a man's penis. Here's how it goes...

Ladies, assume a normal doggystyle position but make sure your forearms are flat on the bed. In this position you can arch your back up or down, changing the depth of his penetration. The arch also raises the angle of your pelvis to his thrusts. I know, this may sound like a lot of work, but don't worry, this position is just to get you started.

Once you're fully warmed up, you may find that your arms are getting a bit tired. Put a pillow under your pelvis and lay flat on the bed with your tush pushed upwards. He'll follow suit by laying on top of you and gently continue his thrust. You'll love this position as he'll be rubbing your G-Spot with his penis perfectly.

Of course with any doggystyle variant, you or your partner always have the option to reach down or around to stimulate the clitoris until climax.

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