Female Orgasm

There is no denying that having a solid sex life is a real wonderful thing, and many

couples who have this treat it as a blessing, but the fact is still the same that many of these couples are having issues in bed. Though its not a guarantee, some of  the following orgasm tips may help you in helping her to achieve a true female orgasm, by starting with the presteps before the actual act itself.

Everyone wants to know how to make a girl orgasm, but often times they leave out one of the most important phases - the lead up of romance.

Set her up for the right mood first

Creating the right mood within your atmosphere is very important, and its really up to the man to do this. If she sees you preparing for something in a mysterious way it may get her to relax, and set her up to be in the perfect mood for an orgasm.

Make the preperation itself a part of the act. You don't need to go overboard, but lighting a few scented candles in front of her, calming the lights, and even setting up the bed so that the pillows are all nice and fluffy is enough to turn on a lot of women. The point is to show her that you care and that its her time to be taken care of.

Using scent to make her tingle

Women are very drawn towards scents, both in a good and bad way. If you have been with a girl for sometime then you probably are well versed in her preferences of smell. Does she like sweet smells, spices, or perhaps even the smell of whiskey and cigars? Whatever she's attracted to, pertain to that particular scent.

You can get creative with this by using aromatics such as candles and poupouri or you can go a step further and include yourself in the mix up. Put on her favorite cologne, or sometimes even a certain scent of conditioner is enough to perk her up. The goal is to speak to and cover all of her favorite senses for maximum comfort and relaxation.

Lotion and friction go a long ways

I'm sure that you probably just got a lot of dirty thoughts from the title,  but what I'm talking about is something far more powerful. Something that gets neglected way too much.

The power of massage is the one gift that you can give to your partner, whether you are a guy or a girl. In fact, a good and thoughful massage for just about anyone works on a level of gratification much in the same way that sex does, but its almost in a league of its own.

I can't think of a better way to ease someone in to a state of sexuality than with the combination of good smells, and lotion being applied by warm hands. Make sure that if you do this that you really put the effort in. Don't rub out those kinks too hard or too gently. Find the in between and go with it.

Scalp massages are your friend

For a lot of women, simply being nurtured a little petted is very important. I think that most people of either sex in generally crave this a lot, but don't get enough of it, so if you are in the position to, you may want to consider using your finger tips to run through her hair.

Having the temples massaged is also deeply relaxing, and allows the muscles in the body to let down and stop tensing up. For some women having the palms of their hands massaged also has the same effect. In all honesty, this is one of the best pre orgasm tips you'll find.

Use your finger tips to test the waters

This is a great way to ease into a possibly sexual moment, and even if she enjoys having sex with you, but has trouble having an orgasm, this could possibly be a good lead up for that future event. Using your finger tips to carress her is a great segway from massage to total intimacy, because this type of petting is very much a little of both.

Remember though, this isn't a race, and you shouldn't try to rush anything. Put just as much passion and joy into this as everything else that you've been doing. With all of these presteps, you really don't need to spent too much time on them, but the commitment to passion is what's key here.

When put together these techniques are like one giant, unique massage, where every thoughtful component is important. Its at this point that you can see how she responds to your touch. You can then react to her response by responding yourself, but you need to match her every step of the way. Don't ahead of anything. Let her lead you.



By: Jon Sibbs

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Larissa

Who else wants to talk about female orgasm techniques that YOUR girl is going to love? If you are anything like most of the men who are reading this, one of your most pressing desires is to help YOUR girl have FAR better orgasms, right? It's true...and the quickest and easiest way to do that is to learn EXACTLY what turns her on, right? I agree! So let's take a quick look at 2 techniques that MOST women love, and the chances are, the girl YOU'VE got your eye on does two. Read on.

Filed Under: Put Her in Control

Any position that allows a woman to control the movement, motion and the friction between your body parts will amplify her ability to orgasm in amazing ways....and STILL allow you to orgasm as well. Why? It's quite simple. A woman organs MOST easily by direct stimulation of her clitoris, and unless she can regulate just how much stimulation it's getting....the chances are left to your own devices, you WON'T be able to do it properly. The key is going to be letting her pick the positions, woman on TOP is a very effective way for BOTH of you to orgasm during intercourse...and LOTS more fun for her as well.

Filed Under: Expanding Your OWN Anatomy

Did you know that a woman orgasms MOST easily during intercourse from the nerve endings at the edge of her vagina? It's true...and the LENGTH of your penis, even though made to APPEAR to be important in popular culture, is FAR less relevant than your width. There are all KINDS of ways for you to hit these nerves during intercourse, including wearing a thicker condom (most men hate this of course) and even sex "toys" for men which widen the penis area as well. But did you know you can do the very SAME thing (and much more!) through exercise? It's true....and a disciplined effort WILL give you GREAT girth....and make HER wild for YOU to boot - I promise!

By: Megan Zoile

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Jewel

First thing to keep in mind is that, all sex toys need a little lubrication. The position and techniques do not matter when using a sex toy. It's just a matter of lubrication to make it more enjoyable and easy to use. Lubricants make your sex toys safer to use for you and your partner. You can feel a lot better when you properly lubricate it before your actual intercourse.

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For female masturbation and non latex anal toys, petroleum lube is recommended to use. If you are fond of anal play you may use petroleum lube to make your entry as smooth as possible. Avoid using petroleum lube on sex toys made up of latex material. It tends to irritate the women's vagina during an intense sexual intercourse. Look for the best lubricant that you can use for your sexual fantasy.

By: Sam W. John

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