Female Orgasm

Every female wants to achieve an orgasm during sex but getting a female to orgasm is one of the most difficult things on this planet. Probably this is the major reason why most females out there tend to fake their orgasms as several men don't know the true art of getting a female to orgasm during sex. You see there are some proven ways using which you can make any girl orgasm anytime during sex, These secrets are so effective that you will be able to make her orgasm at will multiple times. Read on to discover what these tips are and how you can make a female orgasm every single time...

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Get her to relax- If she is going through any sort of physical or mental stress there is a very small chance that she is going to orgasm therefore the very first step towards getting a female to orgasm is to make sure she is completely relaxed and comfortable. The more relaxed she is the more the chances are that she would orgasm faster. One of the best possible ways to get her to relax is to set up the right mood by playing the right kind of music, turn the lights dim as the atmosphere has a big impact on sex therefore learn to add some extra to the whole situation.

Tell her what she means to you- Now the best possible tip to really give her a perfect orgasm would be emotional stimulation more than physical stimulation. You see females are most responsive and orgasm faster when they are emotionally stimulated. Therefore learn to tell her what she means to you and how much you love and respect her. Tell her that you really want to make her happy and you would do all possible things to give her that ultimate happiness. This would really get her emotionally involved and she is more likely to orgasm now than ever before.

Up and down strokes- Never get into intercourse too early. Do you know that it's always recommended to make her orgasm doing oral before you have intercourse? Now to really make her have a hard screaming orgasm insert your middle two fingers into her vagina and stimulate the G-spot. Now if you don't know where this spot is the best possible way to locate it is to keep one of your hands on her public bone and do the up and down motion with your fingers instead of the in and out motion in her vagina. This way you are automatically stimulating her G-spot and you would instantly witness her achieve multiple orgasms instantly.

Learn Special Cunnilingus Techniques give Women Powerful Orgasm

By: orellrf

About the Author:

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Shocking fact: 70% of females never have an orgasm during sexual intercourse.

Yep, it's true.

Furthermore, about a third of all females anywhere have never had an orgasm, EVER.

Again, that's 100% FACT.

There are multiple reasons why this may be the case, and every female has a different set of circumstances for why they have never had an orgasm. Some of them are quite severe and require counselling or medical intervention, such as a history of sexual abuse, or the extremely rare cases of women who cannot orgasm based on medical problems.

However, for most women, the reason they have never orgasmed is very simple - they just haven't met a man who can help them reach the "big O".

The reality is that women love sex. Way more than any guy ever could. Think about it. If you had ten THOUSAND times the amount of touch receptors in your skin, as well as the ability to have multiple orgasms all night long, don't you think sex would be better for you too?

However, women usually need a man who can lead them to orgasm. They've been told all their life that it's "dirty" or "slutty" or "wrong" to be forward at all in the areas of romance and sex. It's always the guy who has to go over and talk to her, the guy who has to get her number, the guy who has to initiate the sex. In the same way, it's the guy who has to help them reach orgasm.

So how does this relate to you?

It's simple. You need to take control of her sexual pleasure. That's not to say that she should just lay there and do nothing - in fact, that's a really quick recipe for disaster - but rather that you have to take the initiative during your sexual activiites.

Whilst whole ebooks can be (and have been) written on the subject of pleasing a woman during sex, I've written one myself in fact, which you can check out by clicking on the link in my author bio.

Having said that, in the space of this article, I will at least try to give you some really cool step by step female orgasm techniques, so here we go:

1. Build Sexual Tension/Attraction

You need to build attraction and sexual tension before you even start getting down to things. Women are very perceptive creatures and often know a lot more about us than we like. The way you think about yourself, the way you dress, the aftershave you are wearing, and so on all contribute to how this woman feels about you. And to be really, really good at making her feel really, really good, you need to build a strong attraction SEXUALLY. This is important because many women don't think about sex in the same way we do - they will sleep with someone because they "like" him, but because they're "attracted" to him sexually, probably largely because most women haven't gotten in touch with that really sexual part of themselves yet.

Exactly HOW to go about creating that sexual attraction is a subject all in its own, and it can be very hard to describe on paper. The best advice I can give you in such a short space is to believe you are desirable and sexy. That will project to her through thousands of subconscious signals and she will pick up on it. If you try and walk the walk without having the mental attitude to back it up, you'll just be putting the cart before the horse - and she'll see right through you.

2. Get Her To Relax

One of the biggest factors in women not being able to orgasm is that they're not relaxed. During sex they're worried that their hair is bad, they are ugly, the lighting makes them look bad, their stomach looks big from that angle... whatever. It may be hard for us to understand, but it does happen.

The best way to combat this is to get her to relax and to feel comfortable around you. Try joking around with her, putting her at ease, all that sort of stuff. In addition, if you find she's tense, just focus on doing something that makes her feel good that isn't necessarily sexual - massages are fantastic for this purpose, but there's a lot of other things that can work really well too - like just talking to her.

3. Be In The Driver's Seat

As we have discussed, most women won't advance things out of fear of seeming too "forward". So that means its up to you to take things to their natural conclusion. During each stage of the sexual process, from building tension, to light foreplay, to heavy foreplay, to the actual sex, you will need to guide her through each of these stages. Be firm but gentle, and if she says "no", then listen to her and stop. If she doesn't, however, take that as a green light to keep going.

4. Take Your Time

Nothing is more of a deal-breaker for a girl's orgasm than a guy who just wants to get naked and play "hide the sausage". You need to be more concerned with every single thing you are doing making her feel really, really good. Every part of a girl's body is very sensitive and receptive to any touch you might want to bestow upon it, so have fun. Nibble on her earlobes. Run your hands all over her body. Talk dirty to her (but not too dirty, keep it tame at first). run your tongue over all the parts of her body that you are willing to. All these things help gradually build her into a sexually receptive mindset, which is when you can begin to really make her feel good.

5. Foreplay is Important

Once she's really starting to get horny - for example, she's breathing heavy, moaning a bit, you're both naked, and her vagina is wet and probably a little red and swollen - it's time to start making her feel good. Begin with some more "heavy" foreplay. Try fingering her or, if you and her are comfortable with it, going down on her. Don't stop until she's either had an orgasm (preferably more than one) or she just can't take it anymore and has to jump you.

You will find, at this point, that giving her orgasms is probably very easy, provided you pay attention to what she likes and what she doesn't and adequately use the clit and her G-Spot. These issues are, obviously, far too detailed ot be written about in this article, but my e-book does include a thorough analysis of how to make her feel really good using these two areas (and everything else, for that matter).

As you might have noticed, an orgasm is the end result of a long result of effort applied in the right way. It takes work and preparation, but with the correct knowledge, you can easily give any woman an orgasm any time she wants one, in any position. The frequency and power of those orgasms will certainly increase with your skills improving, however, and that's why I recommend you seek out ways to further improve your knowledge - and then put it to the test. I'm sure she won't mind.

By: Daniel Scott

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Orrick Lee asked:


The female orgasm is associated to the "by-product" theory, which claims that orgasms are a trait that is heavily present in males since reproduction could not occur otherwise. From any perspective, it is quite clear that the female and male orgasms are completely different from each other and that the male orgasm is more prevalent in today’s society. For this reason, it is quite interesting trying to figure out what the evolutionary purpose of a female’s orgasm is. Perhaps it is just in a woman’s genes.

Either way, some say that the female orgasm is an important trait in physiology since it helps to relieve congestion in the pelvic area, and in psychology, since it provides women not only with physical but also emotional satisfaction, something that is not present in the male orgasm. The female orgasm also suggests that its elusiveness is more evolved than a man’s orgasm because it is only triggered when with a particularly desirable partner.

If mutual pleasure and long-term sexual fulfillment are part of the natural selection process, then this means that the female orgasm is actually an inherent screening device, only attuning to partners who are more sexually fit and making the woman want to stay with that partner to multiply, rather than stick with sexually unfulfilling counterparts.

Researchers and scientists seem to be strangely fascinated by the mystery that is the female orgasm. Unlike males, females have no need to orgasm in order to procreate, so their purpose is truly a mystery. Perhaps the female orgasm does not need a biological purpose. Whatever the reason may be, it is clear that the female orgasm is clearly not understood fully to this day.

One theory that runs around is that it is a mere tool to choose one’s life-long mate. Therefore, the idea is that the males that are capable of bringing females to orgasm are those that are best to raise their children. Perhaps this is the reason why most females do not climax during sex.

In order to understand the detailed mechanics of a female orgasm that could likely maximize the chance of pregnancy, a scientific documentary has been made featuring scientists inserting a miniature camera into the female vagina to reveal the elusive truth of its secrets. It revealed a kind of vacuum pump that sucked up the semen from the vagina, proving that the female orgasm is the evolutionary reason for the female orgasm.

The key to arousing a female seems to stem from a combination of deep relaxation and a lack of anxiety; it actually has less to do with the direct sensory input from the female genitals. According to the scans, the parts of the female brain that process emotions like fear, anxiety and emotions, in general, start to relax and reduce during sexual activity. This reaches an incredible peak at orgasm, creating an almost trance-like state.

It is quite interesting how many questions revolve around the roles of the female orgasm. Whether male or female, it is definitely the orgasm and the less intense joys of touch that make sex so enjoyable. The mere fact that the female orgasm occurs mostly when penetrative intercourse is not part of the equation is pure evidence that sex isn’t merely there to create life.

To this day, the female orgasm continues to be one of the biggest mysteries in our life. For, while the clitoris is obviously there for bliss, the mere understanding of the female sexuality can be as complicated as Euclidean geometry, where the female orgasm itself may be a portrayal of a very difficult exam.

Women all over the world will confirm that when it comes to understanding female sexuality, most guys really have no idea how to handle things. And although some men may have struggled in figuring it out, it is rare for men to have actually asked questions to figure it out. Maybe that is all there is to it.



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