Female Orgasm

Orrick Lee asked:


If you ask a man what a female orgasm feels like, he will most likely say that it’s great and they love it. In fact, most men don’t even know how to make their female partners climax because women hardly do. In complete contrast to a male, there are a lot aspects involved with a female orgasm, both mentally and physically. This is important to remember because you must really focus on certain methods to actually get her to orgasm heaven. You must also know that most women pretend to climax for the mere fact that men have no idea what they’re doing, so don’t let her fool you. With a few tips on how to help her reach climax, you will be well on your way of making your partner keep craving for more.

An orgasm is a climactic explosion that cannot really be describe with words. Once you have had one, it is guaranteed that you will want one every time you have sex.

It is naturally possible to achieve orgasm without each other’s help, so why not try a vibrator? When using a vibrator, you should concentrate on your G-spot area and make sure that you are applying enough pressure throughout the deed to reach the best climax ever.

If you are planning on trying to reach that point with a partner, however, it is essential that you set the right mood and that you both take your time in getting there. Remember that sex should not be a race in seeing who will win by reaching climax first; it is simply an act between two people that you should really enjoy. Make this experience with your partner special and try to teach each other how to work.



Skylar

Sheela Montgomery asked:


Here are 11 facts all men must know about female orgasms and satisfying a woman sexually:



Women can experience 2 different kinds of orgasms namely clitoral (the most common and the one most women are familiar with) and vaginal (less common).

A few women can’t orgasm at all.

The majority of women can only orgasm from having their clitoris stimulated manually, orally or with a vibrator.

Less than half of all women can have vaginal orgasms. They can learn with training and practice, but most don’t know how.

Since most women must have clitoral stimulation, they don’t climax during intercourse unless additional stimulation is provided to the clitoris.

For more than half of all women, their ability to orgasm has absolutely nothing to do with the size of a man’s penis.

For the women that can have vaginal orgasms, they generally have 2 kinds: the cul-de-sac orgasm or the G-spot orgasm. Most women who can have a cul-de-sac orgasm can also have G-spot orgasms. The cul-de-sac is located deeper inside up behind the cervix. While stimulation of the cul-de-sac can be pleasurable most women do not like the feel of the cervix being touched with a probing finger or bumped with a long penis. A 5 inch penis is usually long enough to reach the cul-de-sac depending on the woman.

The other vaginal orgasm comes by stimulating the G-spot. It is not really a spot but more of an area located a couple of inches along the front wall of the vagina. Depending on the woman the G-spot area can be as small as a pea or as large as silver dollar. The G-spot responds to firm pressure and gentle tapping. This can be a drawback because when the G-spot is stimulated she my feel she has to urinate. Stimulation of the G-spot often causes fluid to build up in the Skene’s glands or female prostrate. Many women are uncomfortable with the sensation of fluid build up and are afraid the fluid they release is urine. Numerous studies have confirmed the fluid or female ejaculate is not urine but is akin to prostrate fluid found in male ejaculate. And like a man’s, her ejaculation fluids can “squirt” out from the urethra during orgasm and is completely normal.

A man does not need a long penis to give a woman who is capable a vaginal orgasm. In most cases a 5 inch long penis is all that is required for a G-spot or cul-de-sac orgasm.

Girth or thickness is NOT a significant factor in satisfying a woman. While some women enjoy the “stretched like a water balloon” feeling, most women do not. To large a girth can cause pain during sex. Men of average or small girth may be concerned if they do not feel the vagina tight around their penis and the vagina feels too loose and does not provide enough stimulation. This situation is much more effectively remedied by the women strengthening her pelvic muscles than by a man trying to add girth which may be possible but the process takes months.

Whereas a woman can strengthen and tighten her “grip” in just a few weeks. The stronger the pelvic muscles the stronger the orgasms and the tighter the “grip” during sex. The ezCOME (easy Clinical Orgasm Muscle Exerciser) is an excellent way for a woman to strengthen her PC and pelvic muscles. A man would be much better off purchasing an ezCOME for a woman that wasting money on questionable male enhancement products.

Women with very strong pelvic muscles can easily orgasm vaginally just by flexing their muscles, with or without a penis inside. They can also flex their muscles around an inserted penis and give a man wonderful sensations. The point is a man’s penis size is not as important as a woman’s vaginal strength when it comes to a woman’s orgasm. It is the tapping sensation that triggers a vaginal orgasm and not the stretching and filling up sensation. Hitting the right spot in a tight and toned vagina is more important than size.

Real women generally need a minimum of 5 to 10 minutes of direct, consistent and skilled clitoral stimulation to have a clitoral orgasm. In porn the women are shown having multiple vaginal orgasms within moments of penetration. While such orgasmic abilities are possible, such women are rare, and the instant multiple orgasms portrayed in porn are pretended. In the real world women typically react very differently than the stylized porn queens. Also all the men in porn are huge and their size has nothing to do with the fake orgasms of their co stars. Remember they are actors. Don’t make the mistake of thinking your size has anything to do with your woman’s orgasms.



 

Men sometimes find these female orgasm facts hard to believe. Men will get much more out of sex by focusing on their sex skills and her pelvic muscle tone rather than worrying about the size of his penis.



Ashtyn

Gressly Stevens asked:


If you are not one of the few men that can actually make a woman have an orgasm whenever you have sex with her, then you need to read this article about 50 times or at least until you understand each and every word of it.  Female orgasms are not a myth and you need to know how to make your woman or women have an orgasm everytime you have sex.

There is one very big secret that I just cannot give you in this article because it is the holy grail and you just cannot have it for free.  I will, however, give you everything you need to get her ready and get her to the point where she will have sex with you and I will point you in the right direction to get the Holy Grail.

Step #1 - The Date

Have a place near your place picked out that you can go and make out in privacy.  This is where everything will start.  Also, make sure you treat her with incredible respect and you are a gentleman.  This will get you further than most everything else.

Step #2 - The Making out

While you are making out and once everything starts to get good and hot you need to find a way to let her know that your place it not far away.  This needs to be casual and she will take it from here and give you an excuse to take her to your place.

Step #3 - Your place

Now this is where the majic happens and hopefully you are smart enough to have your place clean and distraction free.  You also want the temperature to be just a little warmer than comfortable. 

Continue to make out and take your time.  If you kiss her on her neck and collar bone you will make her start to go crazy.  Also, if you kiss her over the top of her clothes in places like her stomach, breasts, nipples, and thighs she will probably take her clothes off for you without you having to do much.

Step #4 - Foreplay

Make sure you give her all the kisses you can possible find and caress her gently.  You need to make her feel like you have never seen or felt a more beautiful woman and she needs to be the center of attention. 



Susan