Female Orgasm

Jonathan Matthews asked:


While there has been a focus on male sexuality enhancement over the past ten years or so, women have often been ignored when it came to sexuality research. The focus now seems to be shifting, and women's sexuality is suddenly attracting many researchers that are looking to improve and enhance female's sex lives. Diagnosing female sexual dysfunctions is the job for a professional, but women should try and understand their own sexuality in order to get the most out of their sex life. There are a variety of techniques that work for different women, and today there are also a number of female sexual enhancement products for both increasing libido as well as enhancing female orgasm sensitivity. This article is intended to shed some light on women's sexual enhancement and increasing female orgasms.

Sometimes women can suffer from a sexual dysfunction and they aren't able to enjoy a healthy sex life as they normally should. While some dysfunctions are more serious than others, many problems are not considered to be major and are easy to understand and even correct. Low female libido is a very common complaint amongst middle aged women, and is nothing to be concerned about. Sex drive is fueled by a number of hormones, and if these hormone levels fluctuate so do female emotions. Keeping these female libido hormones in check is the trick to maintaining a healthy sex drive. Some women can even suffer from decreased orgasm sensitivity, which can be very frustrating. Luckily, there are different techniques that can help, and even some cream products for this problem.

Different techniques can often be the key for increasing female orgasm sensitivity. This includes different positions as well as different stimulation techniques for bringing on female orgasms. Every woman is different, and individuals will need to find what works best for them. Most orgasms are stimulated through the clitoris, usually by rubbing, pressing, or using a vibrator against this hyper-sensitive part of the female anatomy. While this usually works for stimulating orgasms in females, others might find that they prefer vaginal stimulation to reach orgasm. Something that should be understood is that vaginal stimulation rarely results in orgasms, and the clitoris is almost always the easiest trigger for a female orgasm.

Beyond different techniques, there are now a number of effective products for female orgasm enhancement and increasing female libido. Although the past couple of decades have brought countless sexual enhancement products for men, it wasn't until the most recent few years that women's products came to the market. Now there are many natural products for increasing female libido, based on herbs and vitamins that are known to settle hormonal fluctuations in women. These products are all based on research from civilizations around the world, and many women are already taking some of the ingredients in these supplements, like Black Cohosh, Vitamins A, B, C, etc. Alternatively, for women suffering from decreased orgasm sensitivity there now topical creams, also completely natural. These new creams are allowing women that were never able to experience orgasms to reach new heights of pleasure. Being based on natural ingredients, these products are medically approved and safe for women of all ages.

Female sexuality problems have become the focus of a new group of researchers. A high percentage of women suffer from decreasing libido, an inability to come to orgasm, or a number of other sexual problems. While there is no simple answer to female sexuality, there are plenty of techniques and even some different products for female sexual enhancement.



Shelby

Orrick Lee asked:


The female orgasm is associated to the "by-product" theory, which claims that orgasms are a trait that is heavily present in males since reproduction could not occur otherwise. From any perspective, it is quite clear that the female and male orgasms are completely different from each other and that the male orgasm is more prevalent in today’s society. For this reason, it is quite interesting trying to figure out what the evolutionary purpose of a female’s orgasm is. Perhaps it is just in a woman’s genes.

Either way, some say that the female orgasm is an important trait in physiology since it helps to relieve congestion in the pelvic area, and in psychology, since it provides women not only with physical but also emotional satisfaction, something that is not present in the male orgasm. The female orgasm also suggests that its elusiveness is more evolved than a man’s orgasm because it is only triggered when with a particularly desirable partner.

If mutual pleasure and long-term sexual fulfillment are part of the natural selection process, then this means that the female orgasm is actually an inherent screening device, only attuning to partners who are more sexually fit and making the woman want to stay with that partner to multiply, rather than stick with sexually unfulfilling counterparts.

Researchers and scientists seem to be strangely fascinated by the mystery that is the female orgasm. Unlike males, females have no need to orgasm in order to procreate, so their purpose is truly a mystery. Perhaps the female orgasm does not need a biological purpose. Whatever the reason may be, it is clear that the female orgasm is clearly not understood fully to this day.

One theory that runs around is that it is a mere tool to choose one’s life-long mate. Therefore, the idea is that the males that are capable of bringing females to orgasm are those that are best to raise their children. Perhaps this is the reason why most females do not climax during sex.

In order to understand the detailed mechanics of a female orgasm that could likely maximize the chance of pregnancy, a scientific documentary has been made featuring scientists inserting a miniature camera into the female vagina to reveal the elusive truth of its secrets. It revealed a kind of vacuum pump that sucked up the semen from the vagina, proving that the female orgasm is the evolutionary reason for the female orgasm.

The key to arousing a female seems to stem from a combination of deep relaxation and a lack of anxiety; it actually has less to do with the direct sensory input from the female genitals. According to the scans, the parts of the female brain that process emotions like fear, anxiety and emotions, in general, start to relax and reduce during sexual activity. This reaches an incredible peak at orgasm, creating an almost trance-like state.

It is quite interesting how many questions revolve around the roles of the female orgasm. Whether male or female, it is definitely the orgasm and the less intense joys of touch that make sex so enjoyable. The mere fact that the female orgasm occurs mostly when penetrative intercourse is not part of the equation is pure evidence that sex isn’t merely there to create life.

To this day, the female orgasm continues to be one of the biggest mysteries in our life. For, while the clitoris is obviously there for bliss, the mere understanding of the female sexuality can be as complicated as Euclidean geometry, where the female orgasm itself may be a portrayal of a very difficult exam.

Women all over the world will confirm that when it comes to understanding female sexuality, most guys really have no idea how to handle things. And although some men may have struggled in figuring it out, it is rare for men to have actually asked questions to figure it out. Maybe that is all there is to it.



Maia

Orrick Lee asked:


A man’s orgasm differs greatly from that of a woman, and this article plans on focusing on what makes it so. The reason we are clearly differentiating this is because we need to find out why only 18% of females orgasm during sex and male counterparts hardly ever know when they’re faking it.

It is almost always a clear sign that males are capable of reaching climax the minute they get an erection. Achieving this is pretty simple for a guy through intercourse or masturbation because all they need is visual and physical stimulation. A man’s orgasms are always accompanied by ejaculation, except in very special cases. Either way, men usually only come once through a very strong ejaculation. After that, they feel too sensitive to have anything stimulating it again.

Females, on the other hand, require a certain process before she starts getting wet with natural lubricants. It takes a woman time to reach climax and for her, it is a slow process involving different heights of sexual intensity. Orgasms are not necessarily followed by ejaculations, unlike with males, although females usually cannot resist the urge to moan and her breasts with turn a light pink color when she is inside a state of static and uncontrollable pleasure. Post-orgasm, females tend to feel vulnerable and hence need to snuggle up to their counterparts and be held and caressed.

Having understood the basic differences between male and female orgasms, it is essential to remember to try to heighten your female partner’s excitement and give her waves of orgasms in a row, so that you will be remembered all the time and so she will keep asking for more.



Olivia

Orrick Lee asked:


If you ask a man what a female orgasm feels like, he will most likely say that it’s great and they love it. In fact, most men don’t even know how to make their female partners climax because women hardly do. In complete contrast to a male, there are a lot aspects involved with a female orgasm, both mentally and physically. This is important to remember because you must really focus on certain methods to actually get her to orgasm heaven. You must also know that most women pretend to climax for the mere fact that men have no idea what they’re doing, so don’t let her fool you. With a few tips on how to help her reach climax, you will be well on your way of making your partner keep craving for more.

An orgasm is a climactic explosion that cannot really be describe with words. Once you have had one, it is guaranteed that you will want one every time you have sex.

It is naturally possible to achieve orgasm without each other’s help, so why not try a vibrator? When using a vibrator, you should concentrate on your G-spot area and make sure that you are applying enough pressure throughout the deed to reach the best climax ever.

If you are planning on trying to reach that point with a partner, however, it is essential that you set the right mood and that you both take your time in getting there. Remember that sex should not be a race in seeing who will win by reaching climax first; it is simply an act between two people that you should really enjoy. Make this experience with your partner special and try to teach each other how to work.



Skylar

Sheela Montgomery asked:


Here are 11 facts all men must know about female orgasms and satisfying a woman sexually:



Women can experience 2 different kinds of orgasms namely clitoral (the most common and the one most women are familiar with) and vaginal (less common).

A few women can’t orgasm at all.

The majority of women can only orgasm from having their clitoris stimulated manually, orally or with a vibrator.

Less than half of all women can have vaginal orgasms. They can learn with training and practice, but most don’t know how.

Since most women must have clitoral stimulation, they don’t climax during intercourse unless additional stimulation is provided to the clitoris.

For more than half of all women, their ability to orgasm has absolutely nothing to do with the size of a man’s penis.

For the women that can have vaginal orgasms, they generally have 2 kinds: the cul-de-sac orgasm or the G-spot orgasm. Most women who can have a cul-de-sac orgasm can also have G-spot orgasms. The cul-de-sac is located deeper inside up behind the cervix. While stimulation of the cul-de-sac can be pleasurable most women do not like the feel of the cervix being touched with a probing finger or bumped with a long penis. A 5 inch penis is usually long enough to reach the cul-de-sac depending on the woman.

The other vaginal orgasm comes by stimulating the G-spot. It is not really a spot but more of an area located a couple of inches along the front wall of the vagina. Depending on the woman the G-spot area can be as small as a pea or as large as silver dollar. The G-spot responds to firm pressure and gentle tapping. This can be a drawback because when the G-spot is stimulated she my feel she has to urinate. Stimulation of the G-spot often causes fluid to build up in the Skene’s glands or female prostrate. Many women are uncomfortable with the sensation of fluid build up and are afraid the fluid they release is urine. Numerous studies have confirmed the fluid or female ejaculate is not urine but is akin to prostrate fluid found in male ejaculate. And like a man’s, her ejaculation fluids can “squirt” out from the urethra during orgasm and is completely normal.

A man does not need a long penis to give a woman who is capable a vaginal orgasm. In most cases a 5 inch long penis is all that is required for a G-spot or cul-de-sac orgasm.

Girth or thickness is NOT a significant factor in satisfying a woman. While some women enjoy the “stretched like a water balloon” feeling, most women do not. To large a girth can cause pain during sex. Men of average or small girth may be concerned if they do not feel the vagina tight around their penis and the vagina feels too loose and does not provide enough stimulation. This situation is much more effectively remedied by the women strengthening her pelvic muscles than by a man trying to add girth which may be possible but the process takes months.

Whereas a woman can strengthen and tighten her “grip” in just a few weeks. The stronger the pelvic muscles the stronger the orgasms and the tighter the “grip” during sex. The ezCOME (easy Clinical Orgasm Muscle Exerciser) is an excellent way for a woman to strengthen her PC and pelvic muscles. A man would be much better off purchasing an ezCOME for a woman that wasting money on questionable male enhancement products.

Women with very strong pelvic muscles can easily orgasm vaginally just by flexing their muscles, with or without a penis inside. They can also flex their muscles around an inserted penis and give a man wonderful sensations. The point is a man’s penis size is not as important as a woman’s vaginal strength when it comes to a woman’s orgasm. It is the tapping sensation that triggers a vaginal orgasm and not the stretching and filling up sensation. Hitting the right spot in a tight and toned vagina is more important than size.

Real women generally need a minimum of 5 to 10 minutes of direct, consistent and skilled clitoral stimulation to have a clitoral orgasm. In porn the women are shown having multiple vaginal orgasms within moments of penetration. While such orgasmic abilities are possible, such women are rare, and the instant multiple orgasms portrayed in porn are pretended. In the real world women typically react very differently than the stylized porn queens. Also all the men in porn are huge and their size has nothing to do with the fake orgasms of their co stars. Remember they are actors. Don’t make the mistake of thinking your size has anything to do with your woman’s orgasms.



 

Men sometimes find these female orgasm facts hard to believe. Men will get much more out of sex by focusing on their sex skills and her pelvic muscle tone rather than worrying about the size of his penis.



Ashtyn