Female Orgasm

According to Freudian theory, a female orgasm at a young age is achieved through clitoral stimulation. As women age, that stimulation becomes ineffective and is replaced by a preference for vaginal stimulation, namely through the g spot. According to feminist theory, which is still widely used as politically correct educational material today, the only way that a female can achieve orgasm is through clitoral stimulation and there is no other center of sexual gratification within a woman's body. The debate has been ongoing for many years, and has yet to reach a consensus. However, the fact of the matter is that women can achieve orgasm through g spot stimulation.

Female orgasm occurs at the height of sexual stimulation, after massaging the g spot or clitoris to a point where orgasm can be reached. With g spot orgasms, the stimulation is often more intense and causes a much more intense reaction. When female orgasm occurs, it can involve female ejaculation, which occurs as a result of fluid being released by the paraurethral glands within the body. Typically, many women do not allow this type of orgasm to flow naturally because of the intense feeling of urination that creates a fear that they are going to urinate, rather than ejaculate.

The female orgasm occurs for the same reasons that the male orgasm occurs. The blood vessels are engorged and swollen, nerves are stimulated excessively, and those feelings increase in intensity until they reach the point of orgasm, where they plateau before sending waves of pleasure crashing through the body. Successfully achieving a g spot orgasm, for women, involves finding the g spot and stimulating it properly. The g spot is located about three inches inside the vaginal opening, and when stimulated can create orgasms that are more powerful and longer lasting than any other orgasm a woman has had.

Female orgasm and female ejaculation are easy for some women and more difficult for others. The conversation is ongoing, and information is readily available from many different sources about how to achieve this type of orgasm. The first step is to achieve a fair amount of stimulation through foreplay to make the g spot easy to find. Once the area is found, it will need to be massaged in a way that is pleasurable to the women until orgasm is reached. This takes some practice and involves communication between partners, but can be achieved by anyone with the willingness to learn.

Want to know exactly how to stimulate the g spot? Head over to my site OrgasmArts.com where I demonstrate on video exactly how to do it and go more in depth about female ejaculation and how to achieve it.



By: Jason Julius

About the Author:

Clayton

Are you the guy that all the women fake it with? Do you last more than 10 minutes in bed? There are many ways to become a better lover and one of them is to understand what the female orgasm is and how you can make every woman you sleep with crave your body and not someone else's. Here are some tips to make your bedroom more active.

1. Open your mind to new possibilities

When you get into talking about the bedroom and the female orgasm it is hard for men to open their minds. They do not want to think for a second that they don't know what they are doing because of pride. Your ego will get in the way, but you have to be able to open your mind so that you can be the one man out of the thousands that actually knows how to please a woman in bed.

2. Start using longer foreplay

One of the easiest ways to make your bedroom experiences last longer is to use foreplay to extend them. This is something that women love anyway and if you can master the art of teasing a woman to the point that she wants to just jump on top of you, then you will have a more active bedroom. This will also make it so that you do not have to last as long to get the female orgasm to happen.

3. Read up and study

The art of good bedroom fun is not something that you are just born with. It does not matter how large or small you are any man can satisfy any woman if they know what they are doing in the bedroom. This means that you have to learn about the female orgasm and you have to continually study books and guides that have secrets to help you become a better lover.



By: Jeremy Slate

About the Author:

Kasey

Do you know that there are a few sexual positions that can increase a woman’s ability to reach orgasm? One thing you must know that every woman is different. Your partner may prefer a particular position because it can help her achieve orgasm faster. In this article, I will share with you 5 sexual positions that can bring most women to orgasm:

Missionary position. Most women love deep penetration and nothing beats the missionary position. While you are thrusting, hug her tightly for deeper penetration. Better missionary position. Lift up her legs and penetrate her from the side. This makes it easier for you to stimulate her g-spot and allows deeper penetration. Doggy position. The doggy position is one of the favorites of many women because it gives the highest amount of pleasure and easy access to her clitoris. Ask her to go down on all fours and you bend slightly to penetrate her from the back. During penetration, use your hand to caress her breasts for more pleasure. Women on top position. When your partner is on top, she has more room to move her body until they find the sweet spot. This position also allows you to reach her clitoris easily. During penetration, stimulate her clitoris for multiple orgasms. Sit up position. Get your partner on top and once you penetrate her, sit up so that your faces come together.

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By: Crid Lee

About the Author:

Peter

If you want to GUARANTEE your orgasm tonight, then read up on the 'Big O' tips outlined below.

If you've ever had an orgasm during intercourse, then you KNOW just how great the moment feels. As such, why not apply a few techniques that will ensure your Big O each time you and your partner have sex? How? Get to know your own body intimately and you'll be able to reach an orgasm faster than ever.

And in your behalf, I have taken on this gargantuan task of asking experts just what we women can do to hasten the Big O process. Use each tip one at a time or use them all in succession in one sex session. Hey, whatever floats your boat!

The Virtues of Self-Love

For starters, think of engaging in self-love (masturbation) first. As you pleasure yourself, pay attention to how your body is reacting and what YOU are doing to push yourself to the edge. For instance, assuming you are using your fingers, do you like it better with 2 fingers? 3 fingers? What pressure do you like? How slow? How fast? The answers to these questions should help you reach a resounding climax the next time you make love with your partner.

Also, it's important to create a sexy ambiance. You see, it's important to 'not break' your sexual mindset and to ensure this, the overall mood should match your thoughts. This can be as easy as dimming down the lights or going all out and putting a bouquet of red roses, lighting scented candles, and others. So figure out what's your own personal sexy mood profile and go about applying it.

Sexy Mental Stimulation 101

One way to guarantee that you come off tonight is to mentally stimulate yourself with sexual visions (wish lists?) throughout the day. These thoughts will build excitement and create sexual tension within you and so by the time he touches you tonight, you'll be all coiled up with sexual tension already! Think about where you want his hands, lips and tongue on you. How soft / hard the pressure should be, and how fast or slow you want him to move. Paint yourself a hot sexy picture and you'll be wet and ready the minute he goes through the door.

If sexual thinking is not enough, then try a little 'hand play' down there. However, do not make yourself come. Just do enough to really stimulate yourself and make you excited for him. By the time you guys engage in sex, your body will easily return to stage you left off earlier in the day. The results? Instant wetness, fast orgasms!

Climactic Sex Positions

Females have two main sex spots that drive them wild: the clitoris and the g-spot of the Grafenberg spot. To find the latter, insert a finger inside you (or better yet, have your lover do this). Make sure your hand is palm up, and then about a few inches up your front vaginal wall, feel for a slightly rough surface. Knowing the above, it would make perfect sense that stimulating these two zones - at the same time - is the key to mind-blowing orgasms.

The woman on top position is by far the best one to assume if you want your clitoris and g-spot stimulated simultaneously.

For the clitoral stimulation, make sure you rub it against his groin. Applying different motions, rotations and gyrations always work for me! Here's a tip: move yourself as if you're tracing an oval shape on his groin. This way, your clitoris gets aroused on your way up, and your g-spot gets stimulated (by his penis) on your way down.

Going on all fours is another excellent sex position to assume. This titillating position places his penis in such a way that touching and rubbing your g-spot is almost a sure thing. And if your lover is well-endowed, who knows, he may even reach you're A-spot, an erotic space that researches believe is also capable of inducing earth-shattering orgasms. If promises of a tremendously Big O is not enough for you, this position at least enables you to face away you're your lover if you're one to get shy while doing the nasty.

Here's another way you can increase your arousal: tighten your PC muscles (remember your Kegel exercise moves?) during intercourse.

By tightening your PC muscles, you're pulling you C-spot (clitoris) inwards, increasing the friction created as he thrusts.

How to Double Sensations

We have a lot of erogenous zones all over our body. Sadly, during sex, it seems that we tend to focus on just one or two focal points. So this time, aim to stimulate as many erogenous parts as you can! For example, while his down there 'tongue lashing' you, encourage him to finger you too and find your g-spot. If you both don't mind a little anal play. Ask him to insert a finger in your back door as he licks your C-spot. While going woman-on-top, be sure you encourage him to play with your breasts and nipples as you ride his pole. In short, maximize the use of your hands and mouth every chance you guys get.

Bring Out the Toys!

Every now and then some external help is needed to increase pleasure. For example, if all that tongue lashing has given your C-spot that burning, irritated feeling, reach out for a tube of lube to make intercourse pain-free.

And while we're on the topic of 'sex help', why not bring out the vibrator too? You may think that this will offend your man but it's all in the way you bring it, honey. For instance, push him gently aside, spread your legs and use the vibrator in front of him. Boom! Instant voyeur show for him. Men fantasize about this all the time! So... really, you're doing him a favor.

The fact is, men and women reach their orgasms at widely differing times. Make sex an even more intimate event by coming together. To do this, you should find ways to speed up your orgasms. True, he should find ways to delay his too. So meet somewhere in the middle!



By: Jessica Perez

About the Author:

Felipe

We have already looked at what the female orgasm, is in other articles, here we are going to look at how you and your partner can achieve satisfying orgasms and enhance your relationship.

The conditions must be correct for your partner to achieve orgasm, both partners must be relaxed and in a comfortable setting and feel totally at ease.

The feeling of anxiety must not be present, as well as the moods of both partners must be happy and without care. This psychological aspect is somehow as important as the physical ones.

Relax and set the mood with foreplay

To achieve orgasm, as much foreplay as possible must be performed. In most cases, and where the woman wishes it, cunnilingus is very effective.

In fact, if cunnilingus is properly performed the woman will reach an initial orgasm.

It should take on the average about 20 minutes. See the net-planet article on cunnilingus for the correct and effective procedures. Do not stop however, as the larger and more important orgasm is yet to come.

3 Positions for great female orgasm,

There are three positions that almost insure a long and pleasurable female orgasm. Do not attempt any of the three without adequate foreplay (or the cunnilingus as above).

The first position has many names, but as mentioned in the Perfumed Garden (a classic Arabic text from the golden age of Arabic Literature), it is called Dok-al-Arz, or "pounding on the spot".

This position assures 3 important factors in copulation. The first is depth of the penis. The second is the "g-spot angle" and the third is maximum clitoral stimulation.

To achieve this position the man sits on the edge of the bed, and the woman sits on the man, inserting his penis deeply into her vagina. She then wraps her legs around him, as well as her arms. The couple is free to kiss if desired.

Then the woman begins a slow grinding movement (no thrusting is possible). She is able to stimulate simultaneously her clitoris and g-spot. The female orgasm comes quickly and with great intensity.

Should the man be able to ejaculate into her womb as she is finishing, the result is only intensified. The woman will love the man greatly if performed well.

The second position also has a great many names, but is commonly knows as The Gates of Heaven.,

To perform this The woman lies on her back. The man lies or kneels in alignment with the vagina.

The man will hold (or press with his shoulder) the woman's leg(s) upwards to adapt the positioning of the woman's pelvis. This position, as believed by some, achieves a faster and more intense type of female orgasm,

This can be accomplished through lifting the women's leg(s) higher upwards; the deeper the man's penis can fully go in.

Again, there is both clitoral and g-spot stimulation. Again, there is very little or no thrusting, but a slow and steady grinding movement. If the woman and man can grind in rhythm, the effect is only heightened.

The third position is a variation of the second, and is called Crab on its Back. This position, like the previous two assures maximum clitoral and g-spot stimulation. This position allows for some thrusting.

The woman lies on her back with a cushion beneath her buttocks, and the man kneels or lies on top of her while pressing her thighs hard against her chest. The vagina will be tighter and the cervix will be pushed forward, so the penis presses against the cervix when thrusting, with a corresponding intensity of sensation. The result is often a very quick and immediate orgasm (or series of orgasms) of the woman.

Achieving satisfaction

The practicing of these three positions will give you and your partner a lot of pleasure and if done correctly can help her achieve wonderful orgasms to enhance and fulfill your relationship with each other. for more crazy ways to make female orgasm, visit the link below to download a 500 mind blowing ways to satisfy yourself and your partner in bed.

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By: hokuns

About the Author:

Maya