Female Orgasm

If you want to GUARANTEE your orgasm tonight, then read up on the 'Big O' tips outlined below.

If you've ever had an orgasm during intercourse, then you KNOW just how great the moment feels. As such, why not apply a few techniques that will ensure your Big O each time you and your partner have sex? How? Get to know your own body intimately and you'll be able to reach an orgasm faster than ever.

And in your behalf, I have taken on this gargantuan task of asking experts just what we women can do to hasten the Big O process. Use each tip one at a time or use them all in succession in one sex session. Hey, whatever floats your boat!

The Virtues of Self-Love

For starters, think of engaging in self-love (masturbation) first. As you pleasure yourself, pay attention to how your body is reacting and what YOU are doing to push yourself to the edge. For instance, assuming you are using your fingers, do you like it better with 2 fingers? 3 fingers? What pressure do you like? How slow? How fast? The answers to these questions should help you reach a resounding climax the next time you make love with your partner.

Also, it's important to create a sexy ambiance. You see, it's important to 'not break' your sexual mindset and to ensure this, the overall mood should match your thoughts. This can be as easy as dimming down the lights or going all out and putting a bouquet of red roses, lighting scented candles, and others. So figure out what's your own personal sexy mood profile and go about applying it.

Sexy Mental Stimulation 101

One way to guarantee that you come off tonight is to mentally stimulate yourself with sexual visions (wish lists?) throughout the day. These thoughts will build excitement and create sexual tension within you and so by the time he touches you tonight, you'll be all coiled up with sexual tension already! Think about where you want his hands, lips and tongue on you. How soft / hard the pressure should be, and how fast or slow you want him to move. Paint yourself a hot sexy picture and you'll be wet and ready the minute he goes through the door.

If sexual thinking is not enough, then try a little 'hand play' down there. However, do not make yourself come. Just do enough to really stimulate yourself and make you excited for him. By the time you guys engage in sex, your body will easily return to stage you left off earlier in the day. The results? Instant wetness, fast orgasms!

Climactic Sex Positions

Females have two main sex spots that drive them wild: the clitoris and the g-spot of the Grafenberg spot. To find the latter, insert a finger inside you (or better yet, have your lover do this). Make sure your hand is palm up, and then about a few inches up your front vaginal wall, feel for a slightly rough surface. Knowing the above, it would make perfect sense that stimulating these two zones - at the same time - is the key to mind-blowing orgasms.

The woman on top position is by far the best one to assume if you want your clitoris and g-spot stimulated simultaneously.

For the clitoral stimulation, make sure you rub it against his groin. Applying different motions, rotations and gyrations always work for me! Here's a tip: move yourself as if you're tracing an oval shape on his groin. This way, your clitoris gets aroused on your way up, and your g-spot gets stimulated (by his penis) on your way down.

Going on all fours is another excellent sex position to assume. This titillating position places his penis in such a way that touching and rubbing your g-spot is almost a sure thing. And if your lover is well-endowed, who knows, he may even reach you're A-spot, an erotic space that researches believe is also capable of inducing earth-shattering orgasms. If promises of a tremendously Big O is not enough for you, this position at least enables you to face away you're your lover if you're one to get shy while doing the nasty.

Here's another way you can increase your arousal: tighten your PC muscles (remember your Kegel exercise moves?) during intercourse.

By tightening your PC muscles, you're pulling you C-spot (clitoris) inwards, increasing the friction created as he thrusts.

How to Double Sensations

We have a lot of erogenous zones all over our body. Sadly, during sex, it seems that we tend to focus on just one or two focal points. So this time, aim to stimulate as many erogenous parts as you can! For example, while his down there 'tongue lashing' you, encourage him to finger you too and find your g-spot. If you both don't mind a little anal play. Ask him to insert a finger in your back door as he licks your C-spot. While going woman-on-top, be sure you encourage him to play with your breasts and nipples as you ride his pole. In short, maximize the use of your hands and mouth every chance you guys get.

Bring Out the Toys!

Every now and then some external help is needed to increase pleasure. For example, if all that tongue lashing has given your C-spot that burning, irritated feeling, reach out for a tube of lube to make intercourse pain-free.

And while we're on the topic of 'sex help', why not bring out the vibrator too? You may think that this will offend your man but it's all in the way you bring it, honey. For instance, push him gently aside, spread your legs and use the vibrator in front of him. Boom! Instant voyeur show for him. Men fantasize about this all the time! So... really, you're doing him a favor.

The fact is, men and women reach their orgasms at widely differing times. Make sex an even more intimate event by coming together. To do this, you should find ways to speed up your orgasms. True, he should find ways to delay his too. So meet somewhere in the middle!



By: Jessica Perez

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Felipe

Just like men, a woman will also feel an orgasm down to her toes. Unlike men however, women can have more than one orgasm, with each one getting increasingly more intense. You can pleasure a woman immensely if you know how to reach her hot spots and what to do. This is not difficult to do for any man. No matter who you are, if you know the secrets to being a good lover, you can make sure that your woman is not only satisfied, but is longing for sex with you again! Here's what you can do tonight to amp up her pleasure by a notch...

#1 - Try a little spanking: Most women are very turned on by authority figures and may not admit it, but like the idea of bedroom discipline. Take her over your knee and give her a light spanking on her bottom. You want to be sure not to hurt her, just give her a tingling sensation. For an alternate, you can have her stand over a desk or a bench for this sort of sexual play that is sure to get her in the mood and bring her around in a hurry.

#2 - Initiate light bondage: Tie her hands up with a silk cord or something else that will not rub her arms. You can then have your way with her, indulging in foreplay for some time before you actually have intercourse. The more time you take with a woman with regard to foreplay, and the more self assured you are in the bedroom, the more she will respond. Try these two tips tonight - they're naughty and daring - but they are sure to ignite a real fire in her!

By: Evan Kinney

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Galilea

When was the last time you have given her a great orgasm? Have you tapped her shell open and brought out the wild side of her? Here are 2 ways for you to get her to climax as easy as pie. By learning these methods, you will not only get better in bed but she will always associate you now with being the guy that gives her sharp, cascading orgasms every time you make out.

#1 - Be lavish in what you give her: It is best to give her a whole lot of foreplay. Just for her. Spend more than 10 minutes giving her every foreplay technique you know. And even have her suggest some foreplay you can do to her. Get her purring and moaning with all your massaging, stroking, nibbling and licking. Kiss her passionately and do not let down on all your attention on her. Focus on only her first. Do not mind that she has not done anything for you yet. To receive, first you should know how to give. And do not worry, not only will she be pleased, you will last longer in bed too.

#2 - Be the catalyst for change! Are you stuck with following sex position you read about or just see in movies? Be different! Find ways to put little changes to the positions and sex routines you usually see in mainstream media. Make it more exciting by finding ways to spice it up. Take into account the state of your partner's physical health and your own. Find places where you could do the deed. Research! There are so many ideas yet untapped. Go look and see your sex life change as you give her mind blowing orgasms with your unpredictable sex moves!

By: Evan Kinney

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Nicole

Differences between men and women are most visible and observable during sex. Men like to be more visual while women need it all to reach an orgasm. That is mental, emotional and physical stimulation. The only way to secure your sex life is to be absolutely certain she loves having sex with you. When she enjoys what she is experiencing, you are sure when she thinks of a bed, she thinks of you. Here are 4 tips to give her great orgasms and make sure she enjoys her time with you...

#1 - Play up the ambience: Ambiance is important when you are to have tantalizing sex. Make sure she is most relaxed and comfortable. Make her enjoy herself and enjoy your sweet company. Make it known to her that you appreciate her. The more she feels that you are totally into her, the more she will respond to you. The more desirable and appreciated she is by you, the more she will love to be with you. Compliment her not only physically but make her see everything about herself in your eyes and mind. Once her mood is set, she will be very receptive to your attention.

#2 - Put the passions on a slow-burner: Never rush into sex. You see, part of the excitement in sex is in not knowing when she will be receiving whatever pleasure you have in store for her. By moving slowly and intimately to her erogenous areas, and by stimulating everything else along the way... you are setting her up for the most intense climaxes she will experience every time. So even if you know she likes being stimulated on her breasts, clitoris and vagina, tease first; pleasure later. Make it fun so that she will be in a great sexual mood and be ready for an orgasm once you get started.

#3 - Props are great! Your hands, tongue, mouth, feet, and everything else are your props. Use them wisely. Maximize the things you do with the help of great wine, ice, good food... you name it, you have it. There are plenty of impromptu "sex aids" around the house. Use your creativity and imagination and put them to good use! Arouse her interest and keep things fun and positive. You will keep her on the edge every time.

#4 - The sensual art of endurance: You have to be able to give her intense pleasure until she breaks out into orgasm. Learn up a few techniques of tantric sex or practice simple exercises that will strengthen your perineal muscles so that you can hold your own ejaculation. Let her anticipation slowly boil over with your attention and she will have the most explosive orgasm once her body cannot take any more of your stimulation. Last longer than her, and you will give her multiple orgasms without fail.

By: Evan L. Kinney

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Marley

Having a female achieve orgasm can be challenging for a man. Many women don't experience orgasm as much as they should due to various reasons. Unfortunately one of those reasons is that the man can fail to please her. Here are some great female orgasm tips and techniques that will get her excited beyond belief.

1. Foreplay and Excitement.

First you want to set things up properly so the mood will be in the air. Guys don't realize that a lot has to do with setting the mood beforehand, and making things exciting. This get's the ball rolling and makes a woman's orgasm easier. You can excite the mood through surprise, romance, or simply being more passionate during foreplay.

2. Touching.

Touching, stroking and caressing can do wonders when done right. You want to focus on her erotic zones, places on her body that are sensitive and can really turn her on when stroked. The back of the neck, the inner thighs, and the buttocks are examples of erotic zones. These are great to stroke both during foreplay and during actual sex.

3. Oral.

Oral sex works great as female orgasm tips as it's both pleasurable and erotic when done correctly. The key of course, is performing it correctly! Study different female orgasm tips and techniques pertaining to oral. It's really not that difficult to learn proper technique, but for women to really experience the full pleasures of oral it does require a few tricks. For instance, humming can greatly increase the sensation. It's little tricks like these that will guarantee you'll satisfy your lover each and every time with an experience she'll never forget!

By: Chess McDoogle

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Jana