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A very common question in regards to Christian sex advice, is: what is allowable? Are only certain positions allowable? Are sex toys allowable? Are only certain techniques allowable? Here is some very important Christian sex advice which will tell you exactly what is allowable and what is not!

First of all, what is allowable is essentially most anything that a Christian couple mutually agrees upon. That is really the key. There must be mutual agreement, and a sex technique or method cannot be forced or coerced onto another who is in disagreement with that particular form of intimacy.

What about sex toys?

This again generally falls under the above guidelines that if both individuals agree upon a certain sex toy, then they should allow it without fear of sin. There are some exceptions as described below.

So what is not allowable in sex?

What is not allowable within sex is bringing a third party into intimacy. Sex should be between the Christian couple only. Threesomes, foursomes or more, are not at all allowed. Now, in regards to a sex toy, the toy should not resemble or mimic that of a third party either.

Is there any other Christian sex advice we should know in regards to what is allowable and what is not?

There is the issue of pornography. This should also not be allowed within intimacy, especially as something used during or before sex. Pornography touches on issues of lust, and should not be included within Christian sex practice.

Other than that, Christian couples are free to explore and enjoy sexual intimacy to the fullest. You can greatly improve your sex life by reading a sex manual which specifically focuses on Christian intimacy. It will provide guidelines to follow, as well as unique, exciting, enjoyable, and erotic ways for you to become intimate with one another.

By: Chess McDoogle

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There has been some confusion over whether Christian sex toys are healthy and sound for the Christian intimate relationship. They in fact can be a healthy addition to a Christian relationship, within reason. Here are some very important guidelines for Christian sex toy inclusion:

1. Safety. As always safety should be a number one concern regarding toys. The purpose is to add or compliment pleasure, not to inflict any unnecessary harm. This of course wouldn't be the intention with the Christian couple, but it's important to be sure a toy does not pose any noticeable accidental harm or danger to yourself or your Christian partner.

2. Avoid. There are some intimate toys to avoid. One such would be any sex toy resembling or mimicking that of another person, figure, or representing such. There are toys present which will resemble, say for instance, a popular celebrity figure. This is akin to bringing in a third party to your relationship, and naturally that is a major no-no that goes against Christian intimacy.

3. Imagination. Your choices for intimate toys can include a wide variety of lotions, lubes, erotic oils and fragrances, and even various erotic foods, syrups, frosting, or other sweet flavorings. Make or create your own safe and sound toy, such as a tickler pillow or erotic massage pleaser and teaser.

While certain limitations exist when including a toy into a relationship, with creative imagination there is a wide open arena of erotic and intimate toys to create, include, and intimately enjoy!

By: Chess McDoogle

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