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If you are new lovers, introducing sex toys can be as uncomfortable as meeting her parents for the first time. What should you get? How should you introduce them? How to broach the subject? Here is a list of the top most popular sex toys for new lovers-simple enough to provide pleasure, unobtrusive enough to not scare her off.

The least intense introductory sex toy is not actually a toy at all, but a great way to approach the subject none the less. Massage lotions and personal lubricants, along with low lights, candles, and a romantic song on the CD player can open the door for more adventurous play later. Many of these are aromatherapy driven, and as everyone knows, smell is the strongest and most sensual of the senses. The addition of liquid pheromones can heighten erotic sensations for the both of you.

If all goes well, the next step up is couples sex play board games. These typically consist of card games that resemble the old "spin the bottle" ploy used on you as a teenager, but some are more intricate, containing items such as furry cuffs and light bondage equipment. If this is still a little too much, you can get something as simple as sexy dice which have suggestions for sexual positions, etc on them instead of numbers.

Next up is a variety of dildos and vibrators. She may have plenty of experience with vibrators, but hasn't experienced the pleasure of you using one with her. Keep introductory vibrators and dildos simple, if you pull one out that resembles a sea urchin you will probably have her running for the next bus. Stay away from butt plugs and harnesses for now, but anal beads might be okay.

If you've gotten through the first stages and are ready to move on to more adventurous sex toys, you may want to try some bondage. Please read up on it first, as it is easy to accidentally hurt each other if you are unfamiliar with the equipment or the use of safety words. Simple restraints may be enough, but you might want to try nipple clamps, spanking, or just get a beginner's fantasy kit, which includes a little of everything for the budding bondage enthusiast.

And finally, you may very well just get to the place where the two of you want to get really kinky. For this, you can purchase outrageous plastic cocks and huge fake fists. Or maybe you'd be interested in double-headed dildos for insertion into both her vagina and anus. You can even get ones that insert one end into his anus and the other into her vagina. Advanced BDSM collections include handcuffs, masks, and suspension gear.

Please remember that it is necessary to take proper care of all sex toys, making sure they are cleaned soon after each use and kept in a place where they will not become contaminated.

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Traditionally sex toys are made for men and woman and they are some of the best sex ideas for couples who are looking to add some spice to their sex lives. Today we will discuss men's sex toys that actually enhance her pleasure even though he wears them. These sex toys are penis rings and penis extensions.

One of the main reasons that these sex toys are some of the greatest sex ideas for couples is that both couples derive pleasure from them. Penis rings are placed on the man's penis in order to prolong his erection and the reason the woman enjoy these and why they are great sex ideas for couples is that we all know that woman take longer to arouse than men and a prolonged erection is great for this.

That is not the end of penis rings though. Today there are many penis rings available that vibrate and are excellent for providing pleasure for both partners. These little sex toys usually have a clitoral stimulator built into them and for women who need clitoral stimulation in order to achieve orgasms will love these, making vibrating penis rings great sex ideas for couples to enjoy.

Penis extensions are wonderful sex ideas for couples who want to increase vaginal stimulation. With penis extensions, not only does the penis stay erect , you can also make the penis longer or thicker depending on what you want. Penis extensions can be smooth or beaded, longer or thicker, heck you can even get penis extension that vibrate or ones that are designed for g-spot stimulation. Whatever you wish a penis extension can help.

Remember that great sex is all about being open to trying new things and stepping outside of your comfort zone. If you are serious about improving your sex life then consider these sex ideas for couples as a place to start.

By: Howard Frank

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