Female Orgasm

We have already looked at what the female orgasm, is in other articles, here we are going to look at how you and your partner can achieve satisfying orgasms and enhance your relationship.

The conditions must be correct for your partner to achieve orgasm, both partners must be relaxed and in a comfortable setting and feel totally at ease.

The feeling of anxiety must not be present, as well as the moods of both partners must be happy and without care. This psychological aspect is somehow as important as the physical ones.

Relax and set the mood with foreplay

To achieve orgasm, as much foreplay as possible must be performed. In most cases, and where the woman wishes it, cunnilingus is very effective.

In fact, if cunnilingus is properly performed the woman will reach an initial orgasm.

It should take on the average about 20 minutes. See the net-planet article on cunnilingus for the correct and effective procedures. Do not stop however, as the larger and more important orgasm is yet to come.

3 Positions for great female orgasm,

There are three positions that almost insure a long and pleasurable female orgasm. Do not attempt any of the three without adequate foreplay (or the cunnilingus as above).

The first position has many names, but as mentioned in the Perfumed Garden (a classic Arabic text from the golden age of Arabic Literature), it is called Dok-al-Arz, or "pounding on the spot".

This position assures 3 important factors in copulation. The first is depth of the penis. The second is the "g-spot angle" and the third is maximum clitoral stimulation.

To achieve this position the man sits on the edge of the bed, and the woman sits on the man, inserting his penis deeply into her vagina. She then wraps her legs around him, as well as her arms. The couple is free to kiss if desired.

Then the woman begins a slow grinding movement (no thrusting is possible). She is able to stimulate simultaneously her clitoris and g-spot. The female orgasm comes quickly and with great intensity.

Should the man be able to ejaculate into her womb as she is finishing, the result is only intensified. The woman will love the man greatly if performed well.

The second position also has a great many names, but is commonly knows as The Gates of Heaven.,

To perform this The woman lies on her back. The man lies or kneels in alignment with the vagina.

The man will hold (or press with his shoulder) the woman's leg(s) upwards to adapt the positioning of the woman's pelvis. This position, as believed by some, achieves a faster and more intense type of female orgasm,

This can be accomplished through lifting the women's leg(s) higher upwards; the deeper the man's penis can fully go in.

Again, there is both clitoral and g-spot stimulation. Again, there is very little or no thrusting, but a slow and steady grinding movement. If the woman and man can grind in rhythm, the effect is only heightened.

The third position is a variation of the second, and is called Crab on its Back. This position, like the previous two assures maximum clitoral and g-spot stimulation. This position allows for some thrusting.

The woman lies on her back with a cushion beneath her buttocks, and the man kneels or lies on top of her while pressing her thighs hard against her chest. The vagina will be tighter and the cervix will be pushed forward, so the penis presses against the cervix when thrusting, with a corresponding intensity of sensation. The result is often a very quick and immediate orgasm (or series of orgasms) of the woman.

Achieving satisfaction

The practicing of these three positions will give you and your partner a lot of pleasure and if done correctly can help her achieve wonderful orgasms to enhance and fulfill your relationship with each other. for more crazy ways to make female orgasm, visit the link below to download a 500 mind blowing ways to satisfy yourself and your partner in bed.

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By: hokuns

About the Author:

Maya

Although scientists have long discussed the G-Spot's existence, there is absolute confidence that for many women, when properly stimulated, it can end up in an amazing orgasm. A mass of tissue found within the vagina about two inches, along the top, it will stand proud of the surrounding tissue by feeling like a soft bump. For most women, that area of tissue protrudes out a little.

Women are capable of many various levels and types of orgasms. Sometimes the G-spot orgasm takes some time to develop. For most ladies, it'll reply to firm pressure. You must play with your girl to find out precisely where hers is found. Although there are numerous sex toys designed for G-spot penetration, you can simply stimulate it with your finger.

Ensure there is lots of lubrication, as your lady should be already excited and turned on before you explore. Experiment with different pressures and motions to find out what stimulates it best. For most women, the G-Spot responds to firm pressure. When you find it, press and massage it. Another good way to stimulate it is by using the come here motion with your finger, curving and moving your fingers toward you as they brush on the area.

This unique area requires firm pressure and quick rubbing strokes, not thrusting. You may also use your other hand or a vibrating bullet to stimulate her clitoris. In many cases, this may bring her to a powerful orgasm in no time.

Compare this to the clitoral orgasm, which is often described as quick and concentrated, and you begin to realize why the G spot orgasm is so fantastic. In fact, for many women it has to be one of the most pleasurable sexual experiences possible.

when you have found her G-spot, experiment with alternative ways to stimulate it. For example, you can experiment by angling your body up so the pelvic bones are aligned and the penis is at the right angle to provide kick.

One thing to bear in mind is that many women feel the need to urinate when their G-Spot is stimulated as it presses on the same nerves that mean a full bladder. But this sensation is also a sign the kick is effective, and that she doubtless will not urinate but instead have a powerful orgasm.

By successfully stimulating her G-spot, you may provide her with a wonderful sexual experience that she'll want to repeat with you over an over again. It is an essential ability to be an extraordinary lover.



By: Francis Yang

About the Author:

Seamus

There is no denying that having a solid sex life is a real wonderful thing, and many

couples who have this treat it as a blessing, but the fact is still the same that many of these couples are having issues in bed. Though its not a guarantee, some of  the following orgasm tips may help you in helping her to achieve a true female orgasm, by starting with the presteps before the actual act itself.

Everyone wants to know how to make a girl orgasm, but often times they leave out one of the most important phases - the lead up of romance.

Set her up for the right mood first

Creating the right mood within your atmosphere is very important, and its really up to the man to do this. If she sees you preparing for something in a mysterious way it may get her to relax, and set her up to be in the perfect mood for an orgasm.

Make the preperation itself a part of the act. You don't need to go overboard, but lighting a few scented candles in front of her, calming the lights, and even setting up the bed so that the pillows are all nice and fluffy is enough to turn on a lot of women. The point is to show her that you care and that its her time to be taken care of.

Using scent to make her tingle

Women are very drawn towards scents, both in a good and bad way. If you have been with a girl for sometime then you probably are well versed in her preferences of smell. Does she like sweet smells, spices, or perhaps even the smell of whiskey and cigars? Whatever she's attracted to, pertain to that particular scent.

You can get creative with this by using aromatics such as candles and poupouri or you can go a step further and include yourself in the mix up. Put on her favorite cologne, or sometimes even a certain scent of conditioner is enough to perk her up. The goal is to speak to and cover all of her favorite senses for maximum comfort and relaxation.

Lotion and friction go a long ways

I'm sure that you probably just got a lot of dirty thoughts from the title,  but what I'm talking about is something far more powerful. Something that gets neglected way too much.

The power of massage is the one gift that you can give to your partner, whether you are a guy or a girl. In fact, a good and thoughful massage for just about anyone works on a level of gratification much in the same way that sex does, but its almost in a league of its own.

I can't think of a better way to ease someone in to a state of sexuality than with the combination of good smells, and lotion being applied by warm hands. Make sure that if you do this that you really put the effort in. Don't rub out those kinks too hard or too gently. Find the in between and go with it.

Scalp massages are your friend

For a lot of women, simply being nurtured a little petted is very important. I think that most people of either sex in generally crave this a lot, but don't get enough of it, so if you are in the position to, you may want to consider using your finger tips to run through her hair.

Having the temples massaged is also deeply relaxing, and allows the muscles in the body to let down and stop tensing up. For some women having the palms of their hands massaged also has the same effect. In all honesty, this is one of the best pre orgasm tips you'll find.

Use your finger tips to test the waters

This is a great way to ease into a possibly sexual moment, and even if she enjoys having sex with you, but has trouble having an orgasm, this could possibly be a good lead up for that future event. Using your finger tips to carress her is a great segway from massage to total intimacy, because this type of petting is very much a little of both.

Remember though, this isn't a race, and you shouldn't try to rush anything. Put just as much passion and joy into this as everything else that you've been doing. With all of these presteps, you really don't need to spent too much time on them, but the commitment to passion is what's key here.

When put together these techniques are like one giant, unique massage, where every thoughtful component is important. Its at this point that you can see how she responds to your touch. You can then react to her response by responding yourself, but you need to match her every step of the way. Don't ahead of anything. Let her lead you.



By: Jon Sibbs

About the Author:

Larissa

Having a female achieve orgasm can be challenging for a man. Many women don't experience orgasm as much as they should due to various reasons. Unfortunately one of those reasons is that the man can fail to please her. Here are some great female orgasm tips and techniques that will get her excited beyond belief.

1. Foreplay and Excitement.

First you want to set things up properly so the mood will be in the air. Guys don't realize that a lot has to do with setting the mood beforehand, and making things exciting. This get's the ball rolling and makes a woman's orgasm easier. You can excite the mood through surprise, romance, or simply being more passionate during foreplay.

2. Touching.

Touching, stroking and caressing can do wonders when done right. You want to focus on her erotic zones, places on her body that are sensitive and can really turn her on when stroked. The back of the neck, the inner thighs, and the buttocks are examples of erotic zones. These are great to stroke both during foreplay and during actual sex.

3. Oral.

Oral sex works great as female orgasm tips as it's both pleasurable and erotic when done correctly. The key of course, is performing it correctly! Study different female orgasm tips and techniques pertaining to oral. It's really not that difficult to learn proper technique, but for women to really experience the full pleasures of oral it does require a few tricks. For instance, humming can greatly increase the sensation. It's little tricks like these that will guarantee you'll satisfy your lover each and every time with an experience she'll never forget!

By: Chess McDoogle

About the Author:

Jana

Do you want your wife or girlfriend to desire sex as much as you desire? Are you the one who always initiates the sex wondering why she is not excited about making love with you?

Why has her sex drive decreased and are there any ways to bring out the excitement that was in her when both of you had just started the relationship? Here are some basic methods to increase her sex drive and craving for sex:

1. Foreplay

Most men have no idea or knowledge on how to perform a good foreplay that can arouse a woman physically and emotionally. Foreplay is not only about oral stimulation. It also includes sensual massage on any parts of her body, and the way you treat her before the love making session.

2. Sex toys

Try to communicate with her openly, and make her share with you any sex toys she would like and how she likes to use it. Understand more about what she really enjoys, and helps her to achieve orgasm using that.

3. Express your feelings for her

She will feel great and being cherished if you can tell her how you enjoy the romantic evening and the hot passionate sex with her, this will also make her want to have more sex with you.

4. Orgasm

You need to give her orgasm whenever you have sex with her, this will increase her sex drive as she is looking forward to the pleasure you have always given her. Enjoying the pleasure that she deserves to will get her crave sex like crazy.

By: Mark Jeff

About the Author:

Kaylah